or on the road or anywhere, for that matter... not that i am ageist, but most people do not live at my energy level and the older people get, the lower their energy level gets... i know, cuz my energy level is lower than it used to be, yet i still bounce around a lot more for longer periods than most people... i just do it in different spurts and intensity levels than i used to... the brain rests a bit more, yet still wants to stay awake and play (which includes much of the work i do) most of the time... energy levels are a big part of what we call chemistry in relationships and interactions... i've yet to find another person on mine in this life... all that to introduce yet another personals site profile, this one on ourtime, a site for the older crowd... it's in three sections...
a little about me…
A few words will likely mislead you, weeks of endless conversation will scratch the surface of who we are. Be realistic, the odds are astronomical that we are perfect for each other. Let's see if we are compatible friends before we start dreaming of more. My time is very limited these days due to professional obligations, so your patience may be tested. I mean no offense and ask for nothing more than I give. No pretenses, no false hopes, just honesty, openness and as much optimism as conscious awareness and experience will allow. My intent in life is to share caring, give all I can give because I enjoy giving, do no harm, and learn all I can. I do my best to accomplish my intentions and repair any damage I do along the way (perfection is an illusion, after all). I think humanity is fear-driven. I strive to be love-driven. Most of the time I succeed. All I ask is for what I offer, especially honesty.
about the one i’m looking for…
Honesty is your highest ideal and you strive to actualize it as harmlessly and with as much kindness as possible You are relaxed, comfortable in your own skin, physically fit (play softball, tennis, and other sports is a plus, run 5K or more is a must), and have more positive energy (not nervous/anxiety energy) than most people half your age. Your mind thrives on learning, exploring new ideas (from numbers and spreadsheets to word play to arts and sciences to yourself and other, life, the universe, and everything - especially the unknown). Your fears intrigue you and compel you to explore and overcome them. This world simultaneously amazes and saddens you, especially people and the human experience. You don't fit in anywhere and seldom does anyone notice because you adapt well and know how to please others when you want to. Your ego amuses you, you enjoy teasing it because you enjoy being real. You think rationally with your whole being and do not ignore your heart. You avoid delusional thinking and people who depend on blind faith, drugs, or conformity. You understand personal responsibility and do not pretend someone else made you who you are. You know peace inside and want to share unconditional honest love and trust.
i’d just like to add…
I love to write and communicate through the written word. Music is a favorite energy and songs are markers, milestones, and inspirations throughout this life. I find humor anywhere in any experience, even when it is not supposed to be there according to current custom. Life is temporary and though it is the most serious experience I know at the moment, I am aware of a bigger picture and am as ready to let it go as I am to experience it to it's fullest. We are all stardust. In my mind I explores infinite possibilities and no one chooses to keep up with me, so far. I also enjoy playing spades and other card or board games when I have time. I love playing with numbers and words. This could turn into a list a thousand lines long, but time and the character count limits us here, so for now, hello. I wish you peace, love, happiness, and as much knowledge and awareness as you can handle :)
yeah, so anyway, you can find my first message to a stranger on that sight (with explanatory notes) here if you just must satisfy your curiosity and explore deeper into my psyche (or simply can't get enough of my babbling)... thanks for that, feel free to let me know :)
